Comments on: Opining on relationships http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/ This blog, much like my life, is a work in progress. Mon, 07 May 2012 17:44:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: A walk in the clouds.. » Relationships revisited http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2650 A walk in the clouds.. » Relationships revisited Mon, 31 Oct 2005 20:48:20 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-2650 <span class="recipient">[...]</span> July 22, 2004 Relationships revisited7:45 AM « Opining on relationships · Guest Post : One Life To Live» <span class="recipient">[...]</span> [...] July 22, 2004 Relationships revisited7:45 AM « Opining on relationships · Guest Post : One Life To Live» [...]

]]> By: Jupe http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-190 Jupe Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-190 Awesome, simply awesome. Totally agree with that Linear Progression thing for men. Have been so bugged by women and their need to keep getting reassurances. Brilliant post.<br /><br />Am linking this one from my blog to urs. Pls? Awesome, simply awesome. Totally agree with that Linear Progression thing for men. Have been so bugged by women and their need to keep getting reassurances. Brilliant post.

Am linking this one from my blog to urs. Pls?

]]> By: Megha http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-191 Megha Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-191 Yeah, she says it well! Part of the bigger (and eternal) Mars vs Venus debate, I guess..<br /><br />Link away! Don't need to ask :) Yeah, she says it well! Part of the bigger (and eternal) Mars vs Venus debate, I guess..

Link away! Don’t need to ask :)

]]> By: Ekta http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-192 Ekta Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-192 Hey Megs,<br />You cldnt have come up with a better timing for the blog!<br />Am currently reading this book called "Why men dont listen and Women cant read maps"- Allan And Barbara Pease.<br /><br />Great book coz it blends facts with humour and lotta data backed by logic and rational to the way men and women behave!<br /><br />Some stuff amazes me --yet good insight if you can learn to read it with open mind! Hey Megs,
You cldnt have come up with a better timing for the blog!
Am currently reading this book called “Why men dont listen and Women cant read maps”- Allan And Barbara Pease.

Great book coz it blends facts with humour and lotta data backed by logic and rational to the way men and women behave!

Some stuff amazes me –yet good insight if you can learn to read it with open mind!

]]> By: Piper http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-193 Piper Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-193 Thought about it... this isnt nalways necessarily true.. so I disagree.<br />Nice blog though<br />pushkar<br />www.pushkar.net Thought about it… this isnt nalways necessarily true.. so I disagree.
Nice blog though
pushkar
http://www.pushkar.net

]]> By: Gautham http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-194 Gautham Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-194 Yes, it does cause one to think ! The part about women seeking reaffirmation, and men considering it redundant, is especially true. Slowly the mystery unravels ... Yes, it does cause one to think ! The part about women seeking reaffirmation, and men considering it redundant, is especially true. Slowly the mystery unravels …

]]> By: Ram http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-195 Ram Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-195 You are basically making a simple point. Men want to <br />move on to other things whereas woman want to stay in a sentimentalist sappy past.<br /><br />Yeah right... You are basically making a simple point. Men want to
move on to other things whereas woman want to stay in a sentimentalist sappy past.

Yeah right…

]]> By: gvenum http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-196 gvenum Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-196 Nice blog. I believe both men's and women's behaviour are in accordance with what they call in software terms "As Per Design". Striking a balance(understanding each other's needs) between men's "what next" to Women's "need for reassurances" is the way to a succesfull relationship. I believe men and women have to keep reminding themselves that they are two completely different spieces and to achieve a sense of success at relationship, they need to put up a "work in progress" sign all life. I think "The Design" objective is to keep engaged at each other all the while."The perfect design by the Master Architect". My 2 cents:-) Nice blog. I believe both men’s and women’s behaviour are in accordance with what they call in software terms “As Per Design”. Striking a balance(understanding each other’s needs) between men’s “what next” to Women’s “need for reassurances” is the way to a succesfull relationship. I believe men and women have to keep reminding themselves that they are two completely different spieces and to achieve a sense of success at relationship, they need to put up a “work in progress” sign all life. I think “The Design” objective is to keep engaged at each other all the while.”The perfect design by the Master Architect”. My 2 cents:-)

]]> By: Chhotu http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-197 Chhotu Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-197 Well I totally agree. men and women normally (99% of the times) have different ways of looking at relationships. Well this article just reminded me of the song " buy me a rose" by Kenny Rogers. Its pretty much true. Nice write up! Well I totally agree. men and women normally (99% of the times) have different ways of looking at relationships. Well this article just reminded me of the song ” buy me a rose” by Kenny Rogers. Its pretty much true. Nice write up!

]]> By: Anirudh Garg http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/opining-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-198 Anirudh Garg Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.meghalomania.com/2004/07/21/54/#comment-198 I think the point in the last sentence of the article is well made.<br />The point being, to understand that we *are* different and recognize that expectations for a sustainable relationship are different on both sides.Then even though it is not in the natural nature to do so, to adjust sufficiently, to allow a smooth relationship. <br /><br />Personally speaking, I *have* found that woman are pretty sensitive(duh) to whatever you say and do, so it pays not to think of her like one of your buddies, but to realize it IS a woman .. :)<br /><br />Also I have a feeling that this is more like a rant from a woman. I think as mentioned in the post, none of the two "approaches" are necessarily right, it would be nice if woman took away something from this too and realize how men's brain work. I think the point in the last sentence of the article is well made.
The point being, to understand that we *are* different and recognize that expectations for a sustainable relationship are different on both sides.Then even though it is not in the natural nature to do so, to adjust sufficiently, to allow a smooth relationship.

Personally speaking, I *have* found that woman are pretty sensitive(duh) to whatever you say and do, so it pays not to think of her like one of your buddies, but to realize it IS a woman .. :)

Also I have a feeling that this is more like a rant from a woman. I think as mentioned in the post, none of the two “approaches” are necessarily right, it would be nice if woman took away something from this too and realize how men’s brain work.

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